Morning routine card
We stuck the printed card on the fridge and stopped repeating myself five times before school. My son still forgets his lunch some days, but the shouting in the hallway has mostly gone.
Nadia, two kids, Benoni
This page is where we show our working: which routines get tested at kitchen tables in South African homes, what we change when a checklist turns out to be too long, and how we keep the guidance honest when ADHD is having a bad week. No inflated numbers, no borrowed credentials, just the habits and sources we actually lean on.
These are notes from parents and adults who tried one routine at a time, kept what worked, and dropped the rest. No before-and-after promises, just what changed on an ordinary Tuesday.
Morning routine card
We stuck the printed card on the fridge and stopped repeating myself five times before school. My son still forgets his lunch some days, but the shouting in the hallway has mostly gone.
Nadia, two kids, Benoni
Body doubling at the table
Sitting with my daughter while I sorted the washing up changed homework completely. One subject out, timer on, and we stop when it rings. Fewer tears, and she finishes more than she did when I hovered.
Pieter, Pretoria
Wind-down checklist
I used to lose whole evenings without noticing. The short checklist and one alarm labelled with the next action got me to bed before midnight for the first time in months. It is not fixed, but it is steadier.
Thandi, Cape Town
Talking to the teacher
The conversation starters gave me the words for a meeting I had been avoiding for a term. We agreed on a reduced load for one subject, in writing, and the afternoons at home got calmer.
Lerato, Durban
Sensory tools
A fidget in the school bag and a weighted blanket at home did more for rough afternoons than any app we tried. Small things, but they hold up on the bad days.
Marlize, Gqeberha
One habit a week
I stopped trying to overhaul everything at once. One habit a week, written down, and I actually kept three of them. That is more than any planner ever managed for me.
Sipho, Johannesburg
We don't run a review widget or chase star ratings. What we do is ask people who used the routine cards, the timers and the wind-down checklists to write back in their own words. Some of it is unflattering, and we keep those notes too, because a support page that only prints praise is not much use to anyone.
The quotes below come from parents in Gauteng and the Western Cape, a few teachers, and adults who found the evening material first. Names are shortened at their request.
Roughly two out of three people who start the free routine pack come back for a second habit the following week. That number is small and self-reported, and we would rather say so than dress it up.
"The fridge checklist was the first thing that stuck. My son stopped asking me what comes next, which meant I stopped repeating myself four times before seven."
"I used the body-doubling idea with a Grade 5 class during silent reading. Sitting at a desk with them instead of patrolling the room changed the whole mood."
"The evening audio clips are the only thing that gets me off the couch at 21:00. Not life-changing. Just enough to brush my teeth and set the alarm."